Yes I have a problem with people who get away with payin child support the children they bring in this world. I was once a child and been thru it I know how it feels goin without chid support in my life and my father not givin a hoot about us kids and payin the system to help us children.

Our mother had to what she could to provide a roof over our heads, keep food on the table and we didn't have store bought clothes or shoes all the time. We had handme down clothes given to us that were clean and it was like christmas to us. We didn't complain though and our mother was strict.. I raised my siblings I didn't have a childhood cuz of things beyond control as I was growing up.

But I see everyday now that system still doesn't push the child support issues.. I know a few friends that are faithful and keeping there child support up and does anything for the kid/kids.
And then I see some that treat there kids like garbage and don't care about what they need and The children suffer thru this and it is not there fault. They didn't ask to be born or it is not there fault that parents was not responsible enough to keep there marriage together either. Sometimes parents blame the children and that should not happen cuz it does a impact on the kids and then they rebel and parents wonder why there children are out of hand and turn bad...

They need to get counseling with the kids when u go thru your divorces plus u yourself so nothing comes bad out of it and u grow more as a family and the transition goes better.

The Deadbeat parents who don't pay child support who get locked up and then they get let go cuz the judge thinks they are goin to proceed to get a Job to start doin so. They don't and keep not paying the system and the child support not paid builds up and then when the kids get to be 18 and out of school then the system quits chasing the parents cuz the child is not a child no more and it is adult and they let what money that was owed and built up what was behind for example $40,000.00 then Government writes it off.

So what does that do to the child and then what kind of influence does that show to the child. That u can cheat the system and get away with something.
I am sorry this was long but I wanted to share my opinon on this cuz I think it is unfair how the Judges and Government doesn't push this more and How they let domestic violence against a woman or man goes too. I have seen it and the law doesn't want to get involved in things as that either.

The Law is not enforcing what should be and there enforcing somethings that are pure nonsense.

Sorry to hear of your difficult childhood, Penny. Sounds like you survived okay.

The child support issue is a dilemma. Men or women who fail to take responsibility are tough to prosecute. No job--put them in jail--no money either way. Domestic violence--too many "victims" return to the same lifestyle.

"Judges and government" cannot replace personal responsibility. Sadly, children are the losers in both situations.

Don't know quite how to answer or what you're looking for here. There are many churches and agencies that offer help for hurting people. If this is just a little "rant", we'll read, empathize and move on.

It is a sad person who dosent take full responsibility for his children. And I feel sorry for them.Why? One reason ,they will never know the joys of having those little arms reach around their neck,giving them a little hug and saying "Ilove you".There are a lot of things that is going on now in this world that i dont agree with,things I wish didnt happen,but what can I do against them? The world today takes what is wrong and calls it right and takes what is right and is now calling it wrong.The Bible speaks of that happening.A prime example is abortion. The Bible teaches to not murder,and what is abortion but pure murder?It is now legal to murder your unborn baby and it is called choice.Some chooice for the unborn child that is killed before it even has the chance to breath one breath on its own.

Thank You So much for replying to this Abula and Angel. I am so glad other people feel like I do about the system and how the government is doing bout the non child support problems.

Yes I know the problems can't be solved over nite and these parents that owe so much in the system for the these children won't ever be managed right.
But I was just wanting to vent and rant to get it off my chest.

There has to be miracle to help save these children who are suffering with this. And with the abortion thing there is choices yes but I just beleive it is up to the individual only if there life is endanger by the mother is not goin to make it thru pregnancy or the baby is endangering the mother and she can't go full term with it.

Or it the baby is goin to have problem's in life with a disease or some kind of disability that will have him not make it anyway when it is born.

But just making babies then changin your mind after No I don't believe in it. Put it up for adoption and let some couple adopted or single person have it that will Love it.. I am for and against in certain areas.

Thanks for listening have a good week

Penny Mae

Some people do not pursue it either. I know several mom's that have not bothered with going after the dad and vice versa. It's easier to keep the absent one away and not keep the kids going back and forth.